That time I threw my Mr under the bus: truth in advertising, my husband is a BAD GIRL.

And now -- more!  More hate to monetize!  Please read THIS first! 

Again -- I figure that if I can't respond, I might as well earn money from the hate I garner, no?  

PS.  This stuff is EXTRAORDINARILY HATEFUL.  If you are easily angered (or in this case, happen to be friend or family,) go take your happy first and come back.   Also, I know the truth, I realize this is NOT my problem.  However, in the spirit of being open, honest and in my way of TMI -- you get to see what I see.  I also realize that 'haters gon hate,' and all that jazz.  But you might as well see it.  I don't want pity.  I'm not the one who needs it.  Clearly.

Today I was pointed to a forum that was loaded with all sorts of anger, some directed at me, quite pointedly.   "Why?"  I don't understand, to be honest.  There are some really effed up accusations, and I only read two threads.  I copied it all and sent it to my husband -- because he was involved in the hate -- and I was deleted from the forum.

This time, it's about Mr. MM, and HOW AWFUL I AM TO HIM!  "HI BOB!"

 

Everyone wave to Bob.  

If you're a long time reader, you will understand how cruel this is.  

If not, it's short long story, and I've been perfectly crystal clear about what has gone on.  If you need a refresher:  READ THIS.  

So, today!  I find these pearls!  (Again go read the above posts if this doesn't make sense to you.)  

Someone found my post about Mr. circa July 2011, bumped it up and sent it around.  This is SOME of what was posted:  

• "You can't call your husband out as a "gay" & then follow up with a fancy home photo for your tagline..."
• "I must say I felt sooooooooooooooooo bad for her DH he seems quite a nice guy I have doubts that he even knows she outed him as being gay on public forums including OH and her blog ... I would NEVER do something like that to someone I profess to love and the father of my children ... NEVER ... I felt bad for him... I met/saw him at the conference in New York ... he seems like a very nice and awesome person ... easy going ...loving and forgiving ... 
• "I doubt he knew any of this transpired ... it brought a tear to my eyes and I was genuinely happy that there could be a reconciliation and togetherness especially with that many children involved ... I am all for preserving families ... then I think about how horrible and in poor taste it was for her to do that to a loved one and I get to thinking he is better of running for his life ...."
• "Babe, you made me laugh right the frig out loud. And snort! Do you suppose him wearing the bad girls shirt was his idea or hers or just truth in advertising?"
• "I think his truth in advertising - is a HOW can i get the FUCK out of this situation faster ?"

I want to thank you for all of that.  And more.

Mr. wants to thank you, too. 

And, I think I just realized just how much this man means to me.  Thank you, Mr.  Thank you for being there -- and becoming a Bad Girl.